Today I will finally have time to pack for our holidays. The week has been very busy so far and today is the only day I have nothing scheduled.
Monday was filled with having coffee with two friends from Adarsh Vista at Leela Palace, then on to a French diner for a birthday lunch of a friend with a group of Dutch ladies, topping it off with coffee and real Dutch home made apple pie at the birthday girl's house.
Tuesday morning I went to the slum with Liset to learn the ropes of teaching English to the ladies at the ANU project. It was a particularly chaotic morning but we did manage to get the lessons in somehow. In the new year I will be filling in for Liset when she is not in town.
Yesterday I went to the hair dresser to get a cut and colour and have my eye brows done. I always go together with a friend and afterwards we check out the shops and have lunch.
Tomorrow I have to be in school at 9:00 o'clock for the Christmas concert. Simon will be playing with the school band (trompet) and his class will do a play.
I guess I better get started packing those bags and suitcases.... Looking forward to the holidays!
Thursday, 15 December 2011
Saturday, 10 December 2011
It is starting to feel like Christmas
Inside our house the Christmas tree is helping us to get into the Christmas mood and outside the Christmas rose is blooming.
The tree and all the decorations were given to us!!!! Thank you Liset!!!!! :-)
Friday, 9 December 2011
Getting ready for the holidays
The last weeks before the holidays always seem to be hectic. This year is no exception to that rule. First the preparations and celebrations of Sinterklaas. Then straight into preparations for Christmas. All sorts of end-of-year-celebrations, Christmas concerts and get together. In between I have to buy the souvenirs for our friends and family in NL, pack suitcases for NL and for our trip to Delhi-Agra-Jaipur, go to the slum with Liset to learn the ropes to take over her English classes when she is out of town, book our trip with my parents to Mysore and Kabini in January AND have coffee and/or lunches with friends.
Only one more week to go.
Have a nice weekend
Only one more week to go.
Have a nice weekend
Monday, 5 December 2011
Sinterklaas in Bangalore
Yesterday Adriaan was Sinterklaas and Joshua and Ruben were Zwarte Pieten for the Dutch Club Saint Nicolas party.
Friday, 2 December 2011
Sint-stress
Last minute preparations for our Sinterklaas party are starting to stress me out a bit. I have bought the presents, made a poem/rhyme but still need to make a 'surprise' (a gift/gift wrapping that is a joke). Not a lot of inspiration unfortunately, so I am hoping something brilliant will come to mind today.
I am going to a new mall this morning with a friendto have coffee and lunch to buy extra sminck/make up, black tights and beard-glue for Sinterklaas and the Zwarte Pieten. Adriaan will be Saint Nicolas coming Sunday at the Dutch Club Sinterklaas Party and Joshua, Ruben and another Dutch boy will be the black Peters. Here's hoping and praying we will find it all.
Kavitha and I made pepernoten yesterday (special little Sinterklaas cookies) and they turned our quite nice. Will have to bake a new batch tomorrow because they were all eaten in no time when the boys came home from school.
Have a nice weekend!
I am going to a new mall this morning with a friend
Kavitha and I made pepernoten yesterday (special little Sinterklaas cookies) and they turned our quite nice. Will have to bake a new batch tomorrow because they were all eaten in no time when the boys came home from school.
Have a nice weekend!
Tuesday, 29 November 2011
Career options
Every day I drive past this shop and I wonder how the owner came to this choice of career. He must have woken up one day and thought: I will be a coconut merchant!
A great choice in India, since coconuts are easy to find and easy to sell. Coconuts are used to quench a thirst, to eat the sweet 'meat' inside, for cooking and for Pudjaa (offering). So Mr. Tiptur started his business.
After a while he must have gone bored with the single produce to sell and found an addition to his coconuts: real estate.... makes sense doesn't it?
"Good morning sir, would you like a coconut or a house?"
A great choice in India, since coconuts are easy to find and easy to sell. Coconuts are used to quench a thirst, to eat the sweet 'meat' inside, for cooking and for Pudjaa (offering). So Mr. Tiptur started his business.
After a while he must have gone bored with the single produce to sell and found an addition to his coconuts: real estate.... makes sense doesn't it?
"Good morning sir, would you like a coconut or a house?"
Proud owner with friend
By the looks of it neither the coconuts nor the real estate are selling well, so again Mr. Tiptur found an addition to his produce: onions and garlic!
Most of the days Mr. Tiptur opens his shop after lunch time and just sits there playing chess with a friend, no coconut, real estate, onion or garlic in sight.
What do you think his story is?
Saturday, 26 November 2011
The Real Expat House Wife
Last Wednesday, in the car on the way to a (work) dinner party, Adriaan told me colleague W. was over from NL and could he ask him over for dinner the next night?
"Sure honey, why not?!" {How am I going to organise that with all the arrangements I have already made for tomorrow?????} But then the light bulb came on: I can be a Real Expat House Wife!
On Thursday morning I wrote the menu down for Kavitha and a shopping list for Baburaj. Babu dropped me of at a friend's house to get some Sinterklaas things organised, then I picked up another friend to go to a mall. We had a great time shopping for Christmas outfits and found some very nice clothes.
At 13:00 hr. we had a lunch at a very nice Italian restaurant to celebrate a friends birthday.
When I came home around 16:00 hr. the house was clean, the dinner cooked and the kitchen spotless. I had pulled it off! I had been a Real Expat House Wife for a day!!!
I have to say it was great to have all the cake AND eat it, it won't become my everyday routine but it might happen again in future ;-) Maybe I should go and find my pearl necklace to match my new life style....
"Sure honey, why not?!" {How am I going to organise that with all the arrangements I have already made for tomorrow?????} But then the light bulb came on: I can be a Real Expat House Wife!
On Thursday morning I wrote the menu down for Kavitha and a shopping list for Baburaj. Babu dropped me of at a friend's house to get some Sinterklaas things organised, then I picked up another friend to go to a mall. We had a great time shopping for Christmas outfits and found some very nice clothes.
At 13:00 hr. we had a lunch at a very nice Italian restaurant to celebrate a friends birthday.
When I came home around 16:00 hr. the house was clean, the dinner cooked and the kitchen spotless. I had pulled it off! I had been a Real Expat House Wife for a day!!!
I have to say it was great to have all the cake AND eat it, it won't become my everyday routine but it might happen again in future ;-) Maybe I should go and find my pearl necklace to match my new life style....
Wednesday, 23 November 2011
How many words?
A few weeks ago I volunteered to write an article for the Shell Expat magazine Destinations. The theme of the second issue in 2012 will be India. Shell Outpost here in Bangalore sent an email to all the Shellies to ask for contributions and I put up my hand (=replied to the mail) to write about being new to Bangalore. Then I sort of forgot about it, just to Realise this week that it has to be in before the end of the year....
So I am working on the article rather than this Blog (sorry) right now, but I will post it as soon as it is finished (i.e. I have written the right amount of words) and have found the photographs to go with it.
Yesterday my status on FB said I am having a hard time getting into the Sinterklaas-mood without pepernoten etc. My friends(?) commented that I should bake pepernoten myself (meaning by Kavitha others commented) and that was perceived as hilarious by "friend" that know my lack of baking qualities.....
Somehow nobody seems to take me serious when it comes to cooking and baking....I wonder why....would it have something to do with the fact that I emphasise my love for food but absence of enthusiasm for the preparation of it????
For Sinterklaas-recipes check out the link Cowroad sent me in her comment on my last post.
So I am working on the article rather than this Blog (sorry) right now, but I will post it as soon as it is finished (i.e. I have written the right amount of words) and have found the photographs to go with it.
Yesterday my status on FB said I am having a hard time getting into the Sinterklaas-mood without pepernoten etc. My friends(?) commented that I should bake pepernoten myself (meaning by Kavitha others commented) and that was perceived as hilarious by "friend" that know my lack of baking qualities.....
Somehow nobody seems to take me serious when it comes to cooking and baking....I wonder why....would it have something to do with the fact that I emphasise my love for food but absence of enthusiasm for the preparation of it????
For Sinterklaas-recipes check out the link Cowroad sent me in her comment on my last post.
Monday, 21 November 2011
Sinterklaas
I had planned to write about day to day things that I notice here in Bangalore and that surprise me or leave me wondering 'Why?', but then I read Cowroad (Blog) and saw this:
Sinterklaas is a big thing in The Netherlands and the Dutch speaking part of Belgium. We don't give eachother presents at Christmas, but at Sinterklaas. We have special treats we eat, like pepernoten and taai-taai, and it is a real family thing. Like with Santa, small children believe it is really Sinterklaas that brings the gifts with the help of his Zwarte Pieten. Unlike Santa, Sinterklaas has been a real bishop a few centuries ago. The Zwarte Pieten are based on the Moors that used to be his helpers (maybe even slaves).
Just this morning I got 5 envelopes, filled them with 1000,= roepees each (just over 15,= Euros) and a piece of paper with a name. Tonight we will each pick one envelope and we will have to buy a Sinterklaas present for the person who's name is on the paper (not allowed to be yourself). The present needs to be wrapped nicely and preferably inside a 'surprise' and it needs to come with a poem about the person the gift is for.
On the 3rd of December we will celebrate Sinterklaas at home. The original date is the 5th of December, St. Nicolas' birthday, but that is a Monday this year. On the 4th Adriaan will play Sinterklaas for the children of the Dutch community here and my boys will be Black Peters (if they fit in the costumes).
It is hard to get into the Sinterklaas-mood here, without my Sinteklaas-cd's (all lost in Libya) and without the shops being decorated and children's programmes on tv. Maybe I can find some music online to download.
An old postcard of Sinterklaas and Zwarte Piet (st. Nicolas and Black Pete).
Sinterklaas is a big thing in The Netherlands and the Dutch speaking part of Belgium. We don't give eachother presents at Christmas, but at Sinterklaas. We have special treats we eat, like pepernoten and taai-taai, and it is a real family thing. Like with Santa, small children believe it is really Sinterklaas that brings the gifts with the help of his Zwarte Pieten. Unlike Santa, Sinterklaas has been a real bishop a few centuries ago. The Zwarte Pieten are based on the Moors that used to be his helpers (maybe even slaves).
Just this morning I got 5 envelopes, filled them with 1000,= roepees each (just over 15,= Euros) and a piece of paper with a name. Tonight we will each pick one envelope and we will have to buy a Sinterklaas present for the person who's name is on the paper (not allowed to be yourself). The present needs to be wrapped nicely and preferably inside a 'surprise' and it needs to come with a poem about the person the gift is for.
On the 3rd of December we will celebrate Sinterklaas at home. The original date is the 5th of December, St. Nicolas' birthday, but that is a Monday this year. On the 4th Adriaan will play Sinterklaas for the children of the Dutch community here and my boys will be Black Peters (if they fit in the costumes).
It is hard to get into the Sinterklaas-mood here, without my Sinteklaas-cd's (all lost in Libya) and without the shops being decorated and children's programmes on tv. Maybe I can find some music online to download.
Sunday, 20 November 2011
Cake for breakfast? If not, Pringles maybe??? PLEASE!
Ruben saw my blog this morning and commented on the fact that I have never asked his permission to add photos with him in them. As a repercussion he wanted chocolate cake (a second piece!) for breakfast. When I said "No", as you do as a good mum that wants her children to have a balanced and healthy diet, he said "Why not?" several times in case that might change my mind and when I stuck with NO he asked to have Pringles instead. Hmmmmm, NO again. I am a bad mother.......{Ruben: "Thats completely true"}.
Over the weekend we are usually not too organised. We do some shopping on Saturdays or go for lunch, but Sundays are usually spent at home, lounging around, reading, playing computer games and going to the pool. The boys prefer to wear their PJ's all day (much to Adriaan's disgust).
The whole week is based on a set routine so it is nice to have less strickt time keeping over the weekends. Pity there is still a pile of washing to be done and dishes to be cleaned.....
Over the weekend we are usually not too organised. We do some shopping on Saturdays or go for lunch, but Sundays are usually spent at home, lounging around, reading, playing computer games and going to the pool. The boys prefer to wear their PJ's all day (much to Adriaan's disgust).
The whole week is based on a set routine so it is nice to have less strickt time keeping over the weekends. Pity there is still a pile of washing to be done and dishes to be cleaned.....
Saturday, 19 November 2011
Flying home for Christmas
Today Adriaan and I went into town to book our tickets for the Xmas holiday in NL, with Emirates. After that we went for lunch. Lovely start of the weekend!
Friday, 18 November 2011
Cooking up a storm
You don't have to know me well to know I don't like cooking. I see it as my duty to cook tasty and mostly healthy meals for my family, but I don't enjoy it.
So how did I end up in a cooking-group? I was asked and it is a great bunch of women and we have a lot of fun!
Last night we had dinner at my house and the theme was 'family recipes'. Everyone of the 7 members of the group makes a dish and you can make it as easy or as complicated as you want. I made my mum's tomato-soup (from scratch, NOT from a pack) and it came out well TG.
Today I will be baking chocolate cakes with Kavitha. My sister in law gave me a great recipe so we are going to try it. It is Kavitha's youngest daughter's birthday today, that's why we make more than 1 cake.
A yummie start to the weekend.
So how did I end up in a cooking-group? I was asked and it is a great bunch of women and we have a lot of fun!
Last night we had dinner at my house and the theme was 'family recipes'. Everyone of the 7 members of the group makes a dish and you can make it as easy or as complicated as you want. I made my mum's tomato-soup (from scratch, NOT from a pack) and it came out well TG.
Today I will be baking chocolate cakes with Kavitha. My sister in law gave me a great recipe so we are going to try it. It is Kavitha's youngest daughter's birthday today, that's why we make more than 1 cake.
A yummie start to the weekend.
Wednesday, 16 November 2011
Maldives
As promised some photos of our holiday on Bandos Island. It was a great holiday and really relaxing.
We had two of those cute beach villas and our view was the one on the bottom left photo. Adriaan and I have spent a lot of time in those two lounge chairs reading, while the boys were snorkeling. Bandos Island is only a very small island, but it is beautiful, with white beaches and lots of trees.
It was a lovely family-holiday!!!
The coral reef is only a few meters from the shore. We saw beautiful fish and lots of black tipped reef sharks. Simon and Adriaan went night fishing and Simon caught 1 fish (he called it Bob).
We went on a dolphin tour and saw lots of dolphins.
We had a lot of rain, but since we were in the water (sea/pool/jacuzzi) most of the time anyway it didn't matter too much. Saved us from sun burn and overheating ;-).
We had two of those cute beach villas and our view was the one on the bottom left photo. Adriaan and I have spent a lot of time in those two lounge chairs reading, while the boys were snorkeling. Bandos Island is only a very small island, but it is beautiful, with white beaches and lots of trees.
It was a lovely family-holiday!!!
The coral reef is only a few meters from the shore. We saw beautiful fish and lots of black tipped reef sharks. Simon and Adriaan went night fishing and Simon caught 1 fish (he called it Bob).
We went on a dolphin tour and saw lots of dolphins.
We had a lot of rain, but since we were in the water (sea/pool/jacuzzi) most of the time anyway it didn't matter too much. Saved us from sun burn and overheating ;-).
Tuesday, 15 November 2011
Why can't I be like them?
My daily routine, after getting out of bed way too early to get the breakfast, snacks and lunches ready and the kids on the school bus, is to tidy up the house, collect the washing and start the first of many loads of the day, have coffee with Adriaan before he leaves for the office and then start up my lap top to check my mail on 2 mail accounts, check my Hyves and my Facebook, read the news on NU.nl and check on the (17!) blogs that I follow. About half of those blogs are from people (mainly women) that I have never met. I have stumbled upon their blogs via other blogs and like what they write or like their style of writing. I have them all stored under 'my favorites' and check them at least once a day. I laugh out loud with some, shake my head in disbelieve at others, but mostly I envy the fact that they wrote about topics I would love to write about but never thought of and now can't anymore because they already did it so well and I don't want to be a copy cat. Most of the bloggers I follow write on a daily basis or at least 3 times a week and if they don't have a new entry for a few days I am really disappointed....but look at my feeble attempt to write a proper blog. I haven't written anything in a long time and soon I won't need to because nobody will follow my infrequent attempts at being a blogger worth following {snif}. It is not because nothing is happening in my life, far from it, but I can't seem to find the right mood to write something that is interesting enough for others to read or write boring stuff in a interesting way.
This morning one of the blogs I read (http://www.smaggle.com/) was about being consistent and it said: "If you care enough about your goal you need to be consistent. Work at it every day."
So that will be my new motto, let's see how long I can keep it up ;-).
I have got my entry for today {YES} and i will work on some nice photo collages of our holiday at the Maldives to post tomorrow. In the mean time I will think of some brilliant ways to write about my day to day encounters here in Bangalore.
Only thing left is to keep my fingers crossed and hope someone will read this.......
This morning one of the blogs I read (http://www.smaggle.com/) was about being consistent and it said: "If you care enough about your goal you need to be consistent. Work at it every day."
So that will be my new motto, let's see how long I can keep it up ;-).
I have got my entry for today {YES} and i will work on some nice photo collages of our holiday at the Maldives to post tomorrow. In the mean time I will think of some brilliant ways to write about my day to day encounters here in Bangalore.
Only thing left is to keep my fingers crossed and hope someone will read this.......
Copied from Smaggle
Sunday, 30 October 2011
Scary stuff going on.
We came back from our holiday at the Maldives last Friday. We had a great time and I will Blog about it coming week (with photos to make you jealous haha).
This weekend we have been busy getting things ready for the Adarsh Vista Halloween Party. We are helping with building the haunted house. Simon will be the head on a platter and Ruben will be scaring the crap our of some kids too. Adriaan is Dr. Frankenstein.
My scary thing for the Halloween Party tomorrow will be the root canal treatment I am having in the morning.... So NOT looking forward to that!
This weekend we have been busy getting things ready for the Adarsh Vista Halloween Party. We are helping with building the haunted house. Simon will be the head on a platter and Ruben will be scaring the crap our of some kids too. Adriaan is Dr. Frankenstein.
My scary thing for the Halloween Party tomorrow will be the root canal treatment I am having in the morning.... So NOT looking forward to that!
Tuesday, 18 October 2011
What you always wanted to know, but never asked...apart from Cow Road that is.
As I mentioned in my last post, I have had some questions from Cow Road and I promised to answer them this week. Easier said than done. Of course I can write about our house, shopping, the weather and other details of our life in Bangalore, but what? How to mould it into a readable blog?
The weather is lovely at the moment. It is in it's low 20's C, and we have had some rain in the last few weeks. I have been assured by Baburaj (our driver) that the rains will stop before Diwali. We are very lucky, weather-wise, in Bangalore. Most of the year the temperatures are in the low 20's C, only April and May tend to be in the low 30's. The monsoon season is very mild, with some showers, but no days-on-end-kind-of-rain. We can sit outside for most of the day and if it wasn't for the mosquito's, we could sit outside all night too.
Bangalore was known as The Garden City for a long time and it still very green, with lots of trees, but unfortunately it is expanding rapidly so a lot of green areas are disappearing. Our gated community, Adarsh Vista in Basavanagar (in case you want to look it up on Google maps), was build on an orchard and most of the fruit trees have been saved, so the houses have fruit trees in their gardens. Mango's, coconuts, pommelo's, bananas, papayas, jack fruit etc. We have only a very small garden on the side of the house and only one fruit tree at the front. It is a sapota- or cheeko tree and we had never heard of it before. The fruit looks a bit like a hairless kiwi. It has to be picked when it is still hard and then you have to keep it wrapped in a news paper for a few days till it goes soft. It is very sweet with a hint of coffee.
The house is finally starting to feel like a home. We have most of the furniture now, bought a carpet for the living room and one to hang on the wall. It was a daunting task to buy everything again after we had lost it all in Tripoli. It is big, but well designed. I will post some photos soon.
Shopping is both easy and hard here. Easy because there are lots of shops, I can buy basically everything in the main street just outside the gate, and hard because good quality is sometimes hard to find.
For the fresh produce I stay in our neighbourhood, with fruit and vegetables galore, for meat I have found a Catholic butcher where I can buy pork (not available at Muslim shops), beef (not at Hindu shops) and chicken at a good price and good quality. For the day to day groceries I can choose from many different super markets. After 2 months I have found my favourite shops and I am getting used to different names for some things. Because of the traffic it can take some time before I have bought everything on the shopping list, so I try to do the big shopping only a few times a week.
One thing I really had to get used to was fresh milk in a plastic bag. Only the long life milk comes in packs.
We have had a driver since day 1, Baburaj, and as much as I disliked having a driver in Tripoli (only the first 3 months till I had my license) I am happy to have a driver here. Bangalore is huge and somehow Baburaj knows everything, even if I only have a vague description of a shop or an area.
Traffic is chaos. Tripoli-traffic was bad, but it were only cars and after a while the "rules" were obvious. Here there are so many different vehicles and pedestrians, besides the fact that they drive on the left hand side of the road, that make it a challenge to navigate the roads. We did get (read buy) our drivers licenses, just in case, but we don't plan to drive.
Since the beginning of October I also have a maid, Kavitha. It took me a while to decide if I wanted a maid or not, but I am very happy I did. She comes 5 days a week, cleans the house, irons, cooks when I ask her to and makes beautiful Rangolis and flower arrangements.
So what do I do with all my free time? Besides shopping and blogging I have an active social life with coffee's and lunches and I will start volunteering soon for a project in a slum.
Life isn't too bad ;-)
The weather is lovely at the moment. It is in it's low 20's C, and we have had some rain in the last few weeks. I have been assured by Baburaj (our driver) that the rains will stop before Diwali. We are very lucky, weather-wise, in Bangalore. Most of the year the temperatures are in the low 20's C, only April and May tend to be in the low 30's. The monsoon season is very mild, with some showers, but no days-on-end-kind-of-rain. We can sit outside for most of the day and if it wasn't for the mosquito's, we could sit outside all night too.
Bangalore was known as The Garden City for a long time and it still very green, with lots of trees, but unfortunately it is expanding rapidly so a lot of green areas are disappearing. Our gated community, Adarsh Vista in Basavanagar (in case you want to look it up on Google maps), was build on an orchard and most of the fruit trees have been saved, so the houses have fruit trees in their gardens. Mango's, coconuts, pommelo's, bananas, papayas, jack fruit etc. We have only a very small garden on the side of the house and only one fruit tree at the front. It is a sapota- or cheeko tree and we had never heard of it before. The fruit looks a bit like a hairless kiwi. It has to be picked when it is still hard and then you have to keep it wrapped in a news paper for a few days till it goes soft. It is very sweet with a hint of coffee.
The house is finally starting to feel like a home. We have most of the furniture now, bought a carpet for the living room and one to hang on the wall. It was a daunting task to buy everything again after we had lost it all in Tripoli. It is big, but well designed. I will post some photos soon.
Shopping is both easy and hard here. Easy because there are lots of shops, I can buy basically everything in the main street just outside the gate, and hard because good quality is sometimes hard to find.
For the fresh produce I stay in our neighbourhood, with fruit and vegetables galore, for meat I have found a Catholic butcher where I can buy pork (not available at Muslim shops), beef (not at Hindu shops) and chicken at a good price and good quality. For the day to day groceries I can choose from many different super markets. After 2 months I have found my favourite shops and I am getting used to different names for some things. Because of the traffic it can take some time before I have bought everything on the shopping list, so I try to do the big shopping only a few times a week.
One thing I really had to get used to was fresh milk in a plastic bag. Only the long life milk comes in packs.
We have had a driver since day 1, Baburaj, and as much as I disliked having a driver in Tripoli (only the first 3 months till I had my license) I am happy to have a driver here. Bangalore is huge and somehow Baburaj knows everything, even if I only have a vague description of a shop or an area.
Traffic is chaos. Tripoli-traffic was bad, but it were only cars and after a while the "rules" were obvious. Here there are so many different vehicles and pedestrians, besides the fact that they drive on the left hand side of the road, that make it a challenge to navigate the roads. We did get (read buy) our drivers licenses, just in case, but we don't plan to drive.
Since the beginning of October I also have a maid, Kavitha. It took me a while to decide if I wanted a maid or not, but I am very happy I did. She comes 5 days a week, cleans the house, irons, cooks when I ask her to and makes beautiful Rangolis and flower arrangements.
So what do I do with all my free time? Besides shopping and blogging I have an active social life with coffee's and lunches and I will start volunteering soon for a project in a slum.
Life isn't too bad ;-)
Monday, 17 October 2011
FAQ? Not really ;-)
This week's theme is 'preparing for Diwali'. A lot of houses on our compound have been decorated with lights and the shops have special Diwali-discounts, -treats, -decorations and -clothes. Yesterday the couple from across the road came to invite us to the street party next week. But for us there will be no lights, no decorations, no new clothes, fireworks or street party this Diwali. We will be dressed in our swim wear for most of the days and only have the choice to lounge on the beach or at the pool side. We will be on Bandos Island, the Maldives!!! It is a very small island (can walk around it in 20 Min's) and we plan to do lots of relaxing, snorkeling, diving and swimming. The only thing we planned ahead is a dolphin trip on Sunday. 6 days of bounty island bliss!
So far I have had only a few comments on this blog and all but 1 were from Cow Road. Is that because she is VERY curious ;-) or is she the only one interested? (Just joking, but i would love to hear from more of the readers!!!)
The questions were about the house (will post some pictures soon, now it is starting to look a bit more presentable), the school (Canadian International), shopping (lots of shops, quite a few just outside our gate) and snakes (haven't seen them yet, TG, but cobras have been sighted on the compound YIKES).
Any more questions out there? I'll answer them properly in this coming week.
The boys will have a Diwali celebration at school coming Friday, so we bought them Kurtas and they look great in them. Will be a nice photo opportunity because all the pupils have to be dressed in local dress, so are the teachers and parents, and there will be singing and dancing!
So far I have had only a few comments on this blog and all but 1 were from Cow Road. Is that because she is VERY curious ;-) or is she the only one interested? (Just joking, but i would love to hear from more of the readers!!!)
The questions were about the house (will post some pictures soon, now it is starting to look a bit more presentable), the school (Canadian International), shopping (lots of shops, quite a few just outside our gate) and snakes (haven't seen them yet, TG, but cobras have been sighted on the compound YIKES).
Any more questions out there? I'll answer them properly in this coming week.
The boys will have a Diwali celebration at school coming Friday, so we bought them Kurtas and they look great in them. Will be a nice photo opportunity because all the pupils have to be dressed in local dress, so are the teachers and parents, and there will be singing and dancing!
Thursday, 13 October 2011
Out of town (or 'out of station' as they would say here)
Last Sunday we went on a trip to Nandi Hills, a granite monolith, about 2000 feet high, north of Bangalore. During the British rule, Nandi Hills was used to throw prisoners off. Last Monday a well known rocket scientist jumped to his death there. Luckily there were no casualties last Sunday (that we know of).
On the way over we missed the exit so we took a lovely road through the country side. Lots of little villages, farmland and animals.
We stumbled upon a big temple area and decided to go in and have a look, Coming through the gate we came into an open area with grass and walkways enclosed by a covered walkway along the walls. The first thing we noticed was a huge wooden cart. Unfortunately we couldn't find out what it was used for.
Joshua, Adriaan and I went into the actual temple area. We were a bit hesitant to leave our shoes behind after our last temple visit, but this time there was someone supervising. As soon as we entered a man dedicated himself to be our guide. He didn't speak any English and didn't understand it either. We could only make our "Shiva" and "Main temple". We were allowed to enter all the areas and even to take photos.
In the main temple we were blessed with smoke and holy water. It is expected to leave some money on the plate with the holy fire, so we did. When we continued our tour we found there were many more main temples... after 4 or 5 we had to take a peek inside from a distance, since all our small change had been used.
We drove from there to Nandi Hills along a small winding road through beautiful nature. Along the road were many groups of monkeys. We knew not to bring any food outside the car, because they will try to steel it.
Nandi Hills is a popular weekend trip, so we were not the only ones there. They say it is the favourite place for your couples and newly weds to go.
The views were great and we walked through the botanical gardens.
On the way back we had to stop frequently because Adriaan went trigger happy with the camera (when we came home he went into mr. Vandelete-mode and threw most photos out).
We also visited a Jain temple, but were were not allowed to take any photos there. There were 118 statues that were only different in colour and decoration.
Another fun day with the family!
On the way over we missed the exit so we took a lovely road through the country side. Lots of little villages, farmland and animals.
We stumbled upon a big temple area and decided to go in and have a look, Coming through the gate we came into an open area with grass and walkways enclosed by a covered walkway along the walls. The first thing we noticed was a huge wooden cart. Unfortunately we couldn't find out what it was used for.
Joshua, Adriaan and I went into the actual temple area. We were a bit hesitant to leave our shoes behind after our last temple visit, but this time there was someone supervising. As soon as we entered a man dedicated himself to be our guide. He didn't speak any English and didn't understand it either. We could only make our "Shiva" and "Main temple". We were allowed to enter all the areas and even to take photos.
In the main temple we were blessed with smoke and holy water. It is expected to leave some money on the plate with the holy fire, so we did. When we continued our tour we found there were many more main temples... after 4 or 5 we had to take a peek inside from a distance, since all our small change had been used.
We drove from there to Nandi Hills along a small winding road through beautiful nature. Along the road were many groups of monkeys. We knew not to bring any food outside the car, because they will try to steel it.
Nandi Hills is a popular weekend trip, so we were not the only ones there. They say it is the favourite place for your couples and newly weds to go.
The views were great and we walked through the botanical gardens.
On the way back we had to stop frequently because Adriaan went trigger happy with the camera (when we came home he went into mr. Vandelete-mode and threw most photos out).
We also visited a Jain temple, but were were not allowed to take any photos there. There were 118 statues that were only different in colour and decoration.
Another fun day with the family!
Friday, 7 October 2011
Mixed Emotions and Devotions
Festival season is a very colourful time in India. Along the roads little stalls appear selling palm leaves, flower garlands and fruits that are used for Pujaa.
As part of the festivities, we decorated the front door with flowers and Kavitha made a Rangoli on the doorstep. Rangolis are an old tradition in India. The patterns are made with fine sand/powder.
Yesterday was the day to give Pujaa to all machines, tools and transport that you depend on all year round. For instance cars, washing machines, hammers, computers and school books are all items that should be blessed. We had our car blessed in the temple and in the church.
First we had to decorate the car with symbols and flowers.
As part of the festivities, we decorated the front door with flowers and Kavitha made a Rangoli on the doorstep. Rangolis are an old tradition in India. The patterns are made with fine sand/powder.
Yesterday was the day to give Pujaa to all machines, tools and transport that you depend on all year round. For instance cars, washing machines, hammers, computers and school books are all items that should be blessed. We had our car blessed in the temple and in the church.
First we had to decorate the car with symbols and flowers.
First we went to a Ganesha temple. The car was parked on the side walk in front of the temple. The ritual was performed by a Brahman.
Our Pujaa was put in Ganesha's lap and the blessing began. First the car was sprinkeled with water.
Back inside the temple we were given some rice to throw at Gasnesha and then we had to throw some rice on the car. The little Ganesha on the dash board got a fair amount of rice too.
Then Ganesha was presented with a burning coconut and then again the car. To complete the ritual the coconut was smashed in front of the car.
Then it was our turn. We were blessed with smoke, got a dot on our head and had a little 'milk' to drink.
To complete the whole ceremony, a lemon was put in front of all 4 wheels. Driving over the lemons prevents driving over people or animals. Real animal blood used to be used for this, but animal rights campaigners have stopped it.
Before you enter a temple you have to take off your shoes and when we left Joshua's shoes were nowhere to be found. It seems like there is an Indian walking around Bangalore in size 46 sandals now...
Unfortunately Babu Raj's bag was stolen from the car too. There was nothing really valuable in it, just is coat, rain wear and the key from his motor bike. It put a real downer on our festive mood, but according to Hindu wisdom the thief that took Josh's shoes also took all his troubles away from him. A blessing in disguise.
We took a deep breath and went on our way to the Catholic Church. There the car was blessed with a prayer and holy water.
Look at Simon, a true angel!!!
I gather we have been sufficiently blessed to keep us safe on the Bangalore roads.
We decided to go to Babu Raj's house to pick up the spare key for his bike. His family welcomed us with open arm and we spend some time with them.
We were back home at 13:00hr, but it felt like we had been out for a full day.
Tuesday, 4 October 2011
Party time!
Between September and December it is festival season in India. We are now in the middle of Navratri the Hindu festival of nine nights to celebrate Shakti, the Hindu Mother Goddess. "Nav" means Nine and Ratri means night. Last Friday we had Dandiya night on our compound and coming Thursday we will have our car blessed at a temple and at a church.
Dandiya night was great fun with lots of dancing. We had sore feet and cramping legs afterwards.
Dandiya night was great fun with lots of dancing. We had sore feet and cramping legs afterwards.
We were quite happy with our outfits!
Yesterday I had a celebration of my own: I turned 45! Adriaan and the boys gave me a pre-birthday-celebration on Sunday already, because Adriaan left for London Monday morning 3:30 and the boys had to go to school.
Babu Raj and his wife stopped by with flowers from Adriaan and flowers from them, and my new maid (hate that word) Kavitha gave me a lovely present too. I had lots of e-mails, phone calls, texts and messages on Facebook and Hyves. So nice to know people all over the world are thinking of me on my birthday.
In the evening a friend stopped by for coffee so I had a great day.
Monday, 26 September 2011
What will be left?
Today we had an email from Shell to tell us they had visited the warehouse where all the personal belongings from all the families are stored. A few weeks ago the rebels looted the warehouse and they have made such a mess of it that they can't even tell what came from which house... Everything that is left will be packed and shipped to The Netherlands as soon as they can organise it, and then we can all come and see if any of our belongings are among it.... Not much hope I am afraid.
We don't even know what was left in the house to be packed. The landlord probably did some shopping in our house and we know some other people got hold of the keys... Then there was no supervision during the packing, so more will have been taken.
I know we should be grateful we left Tripoli just in time and that we are safe. And I know a lot of our Libyan friends have lost family and friends during the war, but I still feel sad and angry.
We don't even know what was left in the house to be packed. The landlord probably did some shopping in our house and we know some other people got hold of the keys... Then there was no supervision during the packing, so more will have been taken.
I know we should be grateful we left Tripoli just in time and that we are safe. And I know a lot of our Libyan friends have lost family and friends during the war, but I still feel sad and angry.
Thursday, 22 September 2011
Ganeshas
I had lunch at a vegetarian restaurant today. The lady that runs the place had all of her 1200-and-then-some Ganeshas on display.
Wednesday, 21 September 2011
Some pictures
Adriaan took the boys to the airplane museum last weekend. The museum is close to our house and has several air crafts and rockets on display. All 4 boys loved it. They went to McDonald afterwards. No beef burgers, so no Big Mac, but the chicken burgers were nice too they said.
These are the cute animals that we see around the house here (too many nasties too, like ants in all sizes...). I finally managed to catch a squirrel on photo, while it was in the palm tree next to our front door. The little owls are always sleeping on our neighbours roof during the day.
Friday, 16 September 2011
Tears of joy!
I came across this photo on the Facebook page of one of Adriaan's Libyan colleagues. It brought tears to my eyes.
These guys have been holding the fort while all their expat colleagues were evacuated. I am so happy for them. It is such a huge thing to be able to celebrate your freedom.
These guys have been holding the fort while all their expat colleagues were evacuated. I am so happy for them. It is such a huge thing to be able to celebrate your freedom.
Thursday, 15 September 2011
With a little help from a friend!
I am still working on the blog lay out and in my last entry I said HELP!!! and help I got. Marjan is Adriaan's cousin (her father Johan is my late father in law's brother) and she lives in America. We have never met, other that online, but I read her blog and feel I know her a bit because of that. We are also friends on Facebook and every time I write a new post or change something on my blog, Marjan will comment and give great pointers on how to improve things. So thank you Marjan!!!!
Work in progress.
Work in progress.
Tuesday, 13 September 2011
Hard work!
As you can see, I have been fiddling with the design of this blog. I like it, but the thing that buggs me is that I can't get the photo of me and the boys to fit the box. HELP!
I have loads more photos to upload, but want to do it a bit more fancy than I have so far, so it will take some more time to figure it all out.
Will just put two photos here to show what to me is the ultimate feeling of India so far. I haven't seen 'relaxed' like this anywhere else ;-)
This dog is asleep on the road, with a speed bump as a pillow. Traffice was coming past constantly, how does it stay asleep? Probably too exhausted from barking and fighting all night (keeping us awake...).
This cow was not on the road, but she was facing traffic that came really close to take a left turn.
I have loads more photos to upload, but want to do it a bit more fancy than I have so far, so it will take some more time to figure it all out.
Will just put two photos here to show what to me is the ultimate feeling of India so far. I haven't seen 'relaxed' like this anywhere else ;-)
This dog is asleep on the road, with a speed bump as a pillow. Traffice was coming past constantly, how does it stay asleep? Probably too exhausted from barking and fighting all night (keeping us awake...).
This cow was not on the road, but she was facing traffic that came really close to take a left turn.
Friday, 9 September 2011
Snow white
Adriaan has had this wish for a dining table with a marble top for a long time, so when he was at the carpenter shop to have desks, chairs and a dining table made he decided now was the time. He designed a wooden frame and went to pick the marble. The carpenter did a great job and last weekend everything was delivered to our house, except for the marble.
On Tuesday he got a phone call from the shop to say that the table top would be delivered between 12:00 and 14:00 hr. Babu had to laugh and told me it was more likely going to be after 20:00 hr or even the next day. And indeed Babu was right, they came at 20:30hr.
It took 5 men and a lot of huffing and puffing to get the huge marble plate inside, and it fitted perfectly on the frame. So now we have a snow white, huge dining table, that easily sits 10 people.
We have to find some colourful items to tone down the white a bit. And curtains would help too...
On Tuesday he got a phone call from the shop to say that the table top would be delivered between 12:00 and 14:00 hr. Babu had to laugh and told me it was more likely going to be after 20:00 hr or even the next day. And indeed Babu was right, they came at 20:30hr.
It took 5 men and a lot of huffing and puffing to get the huge marble plate inside, and it fitted perfectly on the frame. So now we have a snow white, huge dining table, that easily sits 10 people.
We have to find some colourful items to tone down the white a bit. And curtains would help too...
Wednesday, 7 September 2011
Are soap nuts nuts?
Sofie, a French lady from our compound, showed me around the 'neighbourhood' yesterday. We went to 100 feet road and 80 feet road in Indiranagar. Our compound is in Basavanagar, India likes long names ;-).
The driver dropped us of at the beginning of 100 feet road and we walked all the way down, had lunch and walked back along the other side of the street. 80 ft road was done by car, because we were too tired and warm. It was a great day.
At one of the side streets is a fantastic shop called The Ants, Crafting traditions. They sell only products from India, from fabrics to pottery and furniture. But they also sell soap nuts. I had never heard of it, but Sofie has been using them for years already and used to buy them in France. Strangely enough they are hard to find in India. According to the leaflet "soap nuts, or Reetha, are actually not nuts. They are the fruit of the soap nut tree which are harvested and then air dried". The soap nut tree grows in the Himalayas.
I have bought 2 packs, one for my mother in law who is a real 'natural type' and one for myself, because I want to see if it really works. As I am writing this my first load of washing with nuts is in the machine so I will know in about an hour if is a good alternative to washing powder. So soap nuts are not really nuts, but am I nuts for using them? I will keep you posted!
The driver dropped us of at the beginning of 100 feet road and we walked all the way down, had lunch and walked back along the other side of the street. 80 ft road was done by car, because we were too tired and warm. It was a great day.
At one of the side streets is a fantastic shop called The Ants, Crafting traditions. They sell only products from India, from fabrics to pottery and furniture. But they also sell soap nuts. I had never heard of it, but Sofie has been using them for years already and used to buy them in France. Strangely enough they are hard to find in India. According to the leaflet "soap nuts, or Reetha, are actually not nuts. They are the fruit of the soap nut tree which are harvested and then air dried". The soap nut tree grows in the Himalayas.
I have bought 2 packs, one for my mother in law who is a real 'natural type' and one for myself, because I want to see if it really works. As I am writing this my first load of washing with nuts is in the machine so I will know in about an hour if is a good alternative to washing powder. So soap nuts are not really nuts, but am I nuts for using them? I will keep you posted!
Tuesday, 6 September 2011
My first attempt
It is a lot harder than I thought to set up a Blog exactly as I had it in mind and I am not happy with the result yet. But I will just start and develop it along the way. Maybe you can give me some helpful pointers in the right direction?
I have been in Bangalore for a month now and it is starting to feel like home. Adriaan found us a beautiful house. It is huge! We have 5 bedrooms and 4 bathrooms, a large living room and a dining room, a good size kitchen and a garage/laundry area. The garden in tiny but pretty. The compound is relatively small and very green. It has a nice size swimming pool and lots of sports facilities. So we have enough space for visitors!!!
The boys go to the Canadian International School and the school bus picks them up at 7:00 AM at the end of our street. It takes them about 1 hour to get to school. Joshua is in Grade 9 and started his IGCSEs, Ruben is in Grade 7 and Simon in Grade 5.
Adriaan loves his new job, but it is keeping him very busy. He hasn't had much time off this year, so we are planning to go to the Maldives at the end of October, during the Diwali festival.
I am doing fine. So far I am enjoying Bangalore a lot. It takes a while to find my way around town, but we have a great driver, Babu, and he has been a driver to expats for 15 years so he knows where to find everything.
The weather is lovely and the people are friendly. It is sometimes hard to understand the Indian-English and a lot of Indian people tend to talk really fast, so they have to repeat themselves a lot because I don't get what they say. That and the head shaking thing (sort of shaking from left to right with a up and down movement in it too, meaning yes or maybe) so it is very confusing sometimes.
That's it for now. Next time I will write about the Ganesha Festival that took place last week and about all other things that come to mind.
I have been in Bangalore for a month now and it is starting to feel like home. Adriaan found us a beautiful house. It is huge! We have 5 bedrooms and 4 bathrooms, a large living room and a dining room, a good size kitchen and a garage/laundry area. The garden in tiny but pretty. The compound is relatively small and very green. It has a nice size swimming pool and lots of sports facilities. So we have enough space for visitors!!!
The boys go to the Canadian International School and the school bus picks them up at 7:00 AM at the end of our street. It takes them about 1 hour to get to school. Joshua is in Grade 9 and started his IGCSEs, Ruben is in Grade 7 and Simon in Grade 5.
Adriaan loves his new job, but it is keeping him very busy. He hasn't had much time off this year, so we are planning to go to the Maldives at the end of October, during the Diwali festival.
I am doing fine. So far I am enjoying Bangalore a lot. It takes a while to find my way around town, but we have a great driver, Babu, and he has been a driver to expats for 15 years so he knows where to find everything.
The weather is lovely and the people are friendly. It is sometimes hard to understand the Indian-English and a lot of Indian people tend to talk really fast, so they have to repeat themselves a lot because I don't get what they say. That and the head shaking thing (sort of shaking from left to right with a up and down movement in it too, meaning yes or maybe) so it is very confusing sometimes.
That's it for now. Next time I will write about the Ganesha Festival that took place last week and about all other things that come to mind.
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